Is it ok?

Is it ok that I miss my mother-in-law?

Is it ok that I miss her calling me every week just to chat?

Is it ok to say that balik kampung doesn't feel the same because the house feels empty?

Is it ok that sometimes I smile to myself when I remember something that we shared during better times?

Is it ok for me to feel the pain when for the very first time my father-in-law met my son, he mentioned how Ummi was no longer around to see him?

Is it ok that I left the mattress Ummi bought for my baby when I was only 4 months pregnant behind at kampung because just looking at it reminds me how excited she was to know I was expecting a boy?

Is it ok for me to mention her to...anyone?

No, I guess it's not ok. I'm an outsider who just happened to actually enjoy my relationship with my late mother-in-law.

Some people say just because someone goes away, doesn't mean they're not forgotten. In this case, I guess I just need to put everything aside.

After all, who am I?

Kenapa Rambut Gugur Selepas Bersalin?

Taken from ENSAIKLOPEDIA PETUA MELAYU from Facebook:

1. Jika rambut anda gugur selepas bersalin, itu adalah perkara biasa.
2. Pada kebiasaannya, wanita mempunyai anggaran 100,000 helai rambut di atas kulit kepalanya.
3. Rambut gugur secara purata 100 helai setiap hari.
4. Pertambahan hormon estrogen semasa hamil menyebabkan rambut tumbuh dengan lebih banyak. Oleh itu, semasa hamil rambut anda biasanya lebih tebal dan lebih sihat.
5 Selepas anda bersalin, paras hormone anda akan kembali normal. Tetapi, 2 hingga 3 bulan selepas itu, anda akan mengalami keguguran rambut yang agak teruk, terutamanya jika keturunan anda ada masalah rambut jarang.
6.Menurut pendapat orang tua-tua dahulu, keadaan ini mula berlaku apabila anak mula menyemburkan air liurnya. Keadaan ini akan berterusan selama 3 hingga 6 bulan lagi dan mungkin sehingga 9 bulan. Walau bagaimanapun ia tidak dipengaruhi oleh penyusuan susu ibu.
7. Setelah anda melalui proses ini, pertumbuhan dan keadaan rambut anda akan kembali kepada keadaan sebelum hamil.

Bald spot!!

Ni bila sikat rambut. Belum kira lagi yang gugur masa basuh rambut, kering rambut, ikat rambut... ;

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Ilmu Firasat Melayu - Rahsia Cium

 *Taken from Facebook - ENSAIKLOPEDIA PETUA MELAYU LAMA

Suka cium dahi isteri...... ..suami yang romantis.
Suka cium pipi isteri...... ..suami yang penyayang.
Suka cium mulut isteri...... .suami yang gelojoh.
Suka cium tengkuk isteri...... ..suami yang mata keranjang.
Suka cium telinga isteri...... ...suami yang sensitif.
Suka cium leher isteri...... ...suami yang penyabar.
Suka cium payudara isteri...... ..suami yang suka bermanja.
Suka cium tangan isteri...... .suami yang hipokrit.
Suka cium ketiak isteri...... .suami yang menerima isterinya seadanya.
Suka cium punggung isteri...... .suami yang suka bergurau.
Suka cium kaki isteri...... .suami yang terlalu menghormat isteri.
Tidak suka cium mana-mana bahagian badan isteri...... suami yang mementingkan diri sendiri.

Hahahaha...so Eddie is penyayang and gelojoh ;)

Weight

Current weight: 60kg
Goal weight: 52 or 54kg
Mode of exercise: gym 3 times a week. 20 minutes on the cross trainer or exercise bike. Sometimes I also purposely go up and down the stairs more times. Oh, and kegel exercises. Hahahaha :)

I have always struggled with my weight.The only time I truly felt happy with myself was about the year before I met Eddie. Slim, trim and long red hair. Hahahaa...you'll see :)

This is how I looked like when I first met Eddie. Gedik kan? No wonder he ayat me :)

During my merisik ceremony. The red hair is gone. Muka maintain but body starting to slightly increase.

During our engagement. FAT!!! I didn't realise how much weight I'd gained until I saw this picture. And I took it upon myself to lose weight for the wedding, which is 6 months away.

During the wedding reception. YES!!! Achieved my goal weight and more! So happy. And so was Eddie :)

This picture was taken on our one year wedding anniversary - about 2 weeks before I gave birth. WHALE!!

This was 6 days post birth - I was quite happy with the progress.

This picture was taken in the first week of September, with no corset. I still had a slight belly but was generally happy with the progress of how fast I was losing weight :)

This picture was taken one week before Halloween. I've just started going to the gym during lunch time - 3 times a week (or as many times as I can manage).